So, I've been thinking to myself a lot lately about things. About always being there for someone. I'll admit, I'm there for many people in my life, and I always try to help them through any of their problems. But how far do you go for someone? What if they've made the same mistake again and again. You've tried to help them, but what if you just can't deal with it anymore? What if by helping someone else, you're hurting yourself?
Occasionally I feel this way, and I know a few people who do feel this way at the moment. And it hurts to see and feel.
What I've decided is that you SHOULD be there for someone, and you should help them, but if you start to become the one who is hurting because of the help your giving, then stop. This may sound selfish, but your happiness is most important, and once you're happy, then focus on other peoples problems.
I know that the friends I am thinking of who are going through this, and maybe even me, should just take some time for yourself. Think about your happiness for once, not others. :) It will make you feel better.
Trust me.
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